Kadin's 1 Year Pictures

I wanted to take Kadin's 1 year pictures at the beach so this morning we went down to Bolsa Chica Beach. Renee came with me and we met Sharlene, Laura, Dylan and Linda there also. I knew I would not be able to take Kadin's pictures and keep an eye on Tristan so we had a little help. It was a beautiful day. Tristan loved the water and and playing in the sand. Kadin would not corporate and wanted me to hold him the whole time. I could not get a good picture of him, all he did was cry. It's not that he didn't like the sand he did and loved playing in it it's just that he's very much attached to me, he's my little mamma's boy.

After taking the pictures we went to lunch at Jon's Cafe where one big mess happened after another. Again this is why I don't take the boys out to eat. The waiter put a glass of ice cold water in front of Kadin and the first thing he did was grab the glass spilling it all over himself, it was the waiters second day, hopefully he learned not to put items in front of small children. The boys behaved very good. After eating lunch and getting ready to leave I looked at the table and I remember when I was a waitress I hated people like me who left big messes. I cleaned up as much at possible but with two drink spills, lots of used napkins and dirty plates there was not much for me to clean up with out having to take items back into the kitchen. We did leave a good tip.

My first job was a hostess at Applebee's Restaurant. I managed to stay working there for six years and became a waitress, bartender and expoditer. I loved working there and managed to save up money to buy my first car, a teel green Mitsubushi Eclispe. I remember waiting tables and working a lot of Friday and Saturday nights and paying the hostess $20.00 dollars a night to not seat children in my section. I did not like kids and never wanted any of my own. I remember thinking why did the parents let the kids scream and yell, color with crayons on the table (that's just irresponsible) and just make a mess of everything. Why would you even take your kids out to eat if the behaved so badly? So therefore in my mind I was never going to have kids. Now that I have two boys of my own I realized the parents were giving them anything possible to keep them behaved and mostly did not work out in there favor leaving a big mess all over the table and floor. I feel like because I went through this I try to prevent it from happening to me and I just don't take the boys out to eat but it's all in the parents not just the kids.